As Friday the 13th comes around the corner, many people are talking about triskaidekaphobia, or fear of the number 13. You may have even heard of the terms, paraskevidekatriaphobia or friggatriskaidekaphobia, which refer to the fear of Friday the 13th. But there is a far more insidious fear that specifically affects some pregnant women. It is trisdesonographophobia (pronounced TRIS – dee – SON – o – graf-o- fobia) – an irrational fear of 3D ultrasounds.
Of course, there is nothing to be afraid of with 3D ultrasounds. 3D ultrasound uses the same sound waves as the ultrasounds used in your doctor’s office, and the safety of ultrasounds in general have stood the test of time, over 35 years without any known harmful effects.
There are a few other fears regarding 3D ultrasounds besides safety concerns.
For couples who do not want to know the gender of the baby, there is a fear that seeing your baby will reveal the sex of the baby.
There is no way to tell the sex of the baby just by looking at the baby’s face on 3D ultrasound. If you request to not find out the gender of your baby, your appointment will be especially flagged and our entire staff will make sure to not discuss the gender. Also, if the technician needs to put the ultrasound probe in that specific region, such as may be necessary to get a better angle, our technician informs the mom to look away and our technician looks away as well! This way, our ultrasound technician won’t accidentally reveal the gender of your baby by referring to your baby as he or she. At First Peek Ultrasound, you can rest assured that you have nothing to fear of 3D ultrasounds if you do not want to know the sex of your baby.
The fear that your baby will look like an alien
Babies do look fish-like, alien-like, or, the term we prefer, embryonic, when you are very early in your pregnancy. Although we can generally determine the gender of your baby as early as 15 weeks, if you are coming for the purpose of seeing and bonding with your baby and getting good pictures of your baby, we do not recommend you come in before 17 weeks, and preferably after 20 weeks. The ideal time to come in for pictures is between 24 and 30 weeks.
To get a general idea of what your baby may look like at each stage of pregnancy, check out our 3D ultrasound gallery to see a week-by-week breakdown.
The fear that your baby will not be cute
Don’t worry. Every mom thinks their baby is cute.
The fear that you may find out something wrong
Our 3D ultrasound sessions are not medical, so we do not do any diagnostic evaluation. If we do happen to see something, we will notify you and your doctor. If you did not get a call from us, then we did not notice anything wrong, but this does not mean that your baby has a clear bill of health. It is important for all pregnant women to get proper prenatal care and a medical diagnostic ultrasound as may be indicated.
The fear that you can not afford it
This is a very common fear among pregnant women regarding 3D ultrasounds – that 3D ultrasounds are too expensive and that they will not be able to afford it. At First Peek Ultrasound, you have nothing to fear. Our 3D ultrasound packages start at $39, and our most popular package, the First Peek Package, is only $59. (Prior to First Peek Ultrasound’s existence, a similar package in Chicago would have been at least $100.)
Have you experienced trisdesonographophobia? What are some of the fears you had regarding 3D ultrasounds?